Randomness…
| August 6th, 2009I’m still working on my website and blog…please be patient.
I thought earlier I would simply blog…Am I to nice?…then I thought…should that be a statement or a question. I definitely think people mistake my kindness for weakness. Then I thought I should stop being so nice, but why. Why should I let how I react to someone determine how I act? I have to really realize that I can’t please everyone. I wish that I could,but simply I can’t. Not everyone is going to like how I tie my shoes,how I drive my car, how I do my hair…or don’t,you get the point. By realizing I can’t please everyone, I’m just letting things flow. I do my best,or the best I know at that moment,and aim to do better. What more can I do but do that. That being said if I have something to say about someone, I’ll let them know. I try not say something about someone that I won’t say to their face. If I have something against someone I tell them,hopefully we can resolve it an a mature fashion. I never confess to knowing everything. I may not know everything, but I know someone,or somewhere that knows something,so I may not know everything, but I know there is a way to find an answer. I should have tittled this rant instead of randomness. I realize I can’t please everyone, I won’t beat myself up for that fact. If your reading this and thinking wow, should I hire her if she doesn’t care if she pleases everyone let me make a disclaimer. When you hire me to photograph you, it is my business to make sure you are satisfied. It is my business to make sure you love your photographs. If your not happy, I’m not happy. I’m not referring to my husband here either : ) Although if you have been in a relationship you know can’t always please your mate either,but I do try my best : ) Ok I think I have it out of my system! My b-day is coming up August 12. I’ll be 32. I won’t say I’m getting older, I’m not in denial that I’m aging. But, whoah I’m getting up there : ) I’m happy,blessed, healthy,working hard, and more. I am going to get myself a massage for my b-day I’ve never had one before. I’m really looking forward to it, I know I deserve some relaxation. I may even treat myself to a facial. I’m trying to figure out how to get rid of the dark circles under my eyes.Any suggestions besides concealer? Also trying to figure out how to shrink my pores. I bought this cool mask at Family Dollar. It is Queen Helen, Antioxidant grape seed extract,peel off masque. It goes on clear and you peel it off. My pores looked smaller instantly, it’s really cool you have to try it. I’ve used it 3 times the key must be consistency. I’m in a rambling mood, I can type randomness a lot right now. I’m signing off…
Till Later
The baby is so cute
Thank you : )
I totally understand what you mean when you wish you could please everyone but you just cant. It’s like you bend over backwards and you twist and do everything in your power to make everyone in your life permanently or just for a short time happy and eventually you just cant take it anymore and you pop. It’s just your body telling you that you can’t take that anymore or something really will pop from all the bending and twisting. So my suggestion is to just not twist it the wrong direction. I do love your photography if that is it at the top of the page.
Have a better day! and Happy early early birthday!
Thanks Becca,all of the photography is taken by me : ) I appreciate the compliment, and comment! I was speaking to someone the next day after I had posted this and they also said don’t take it personal. I didn’t think about it that way but it does make sense. I know some people have their own issues and try to pass them on to others. Thanks for the birthday wish, this is the first b-day in a while I’m excited about.